The purpose of this page is to answer some frequently asked questions, and to let you know more about who we are -- and who we are not.
Dancing With The Black Dog
Who are we?
We are an Australian registered charity called Dancing With The Black Dog. You can view our entry here on the register of the Australian Charities and Not-For-Profits Commission. Due to high demand for our products from the UK over the past 15 months, we are also now in the process of registering as a charity in the UK.
Are you affiliated with any other charities?
We are not affiliated with beyondblue, R U OK? Day, The Black Dog Institute, SANE, Lifeline, MIND, The Rainbow Trust, Headspace, Heads Together or any other mental health charity. It is, however, our intention to approach several mental health charities around the world, to seek their endorsement, and in return to share proceeds with them. And so far we are doing this for beyondblue in Australia. Other countries will take time.
What are your proceeds currently being spent on?
For now, all proceeds (after donations to beyondblue) and all direct donations to us, are going towards raising further awareness of our initiative. This may involve anything from social media to newspaper or radio campaigns, or any other creative ways we come up with to spread awareness of our cause, and depending on how successful we become. We are also in discussion with a number of corporates regarding sponsorship.
So what's itsoktsay.org all about?
It's OK To Say If You Don't Feel OK was established in 2015, and is a global mental health initiative being run by our charity. We gave it its own URL to make it easy to remember and find. Through this initiative, we are creating a worldwide symbol for mental health. The name stems from public talks that our founder Mark Pacitti has carried out where he closes off with the statement "it is one of my greatest hopes, as a result of actions we can all take today, that our children, and our children's children, can all grow up in a world where it feels ok to say if you don't feel ok". This is the very clear message we are aiming to get across; we cannot think of a better or more catchy way to say it.
Where can I buy the black dog lapel pins, stickers and badges?
Currently they are only available to buy online at www.itsoktosay.org (A$6 for 1; A$12 for 3) – though postage and packaging is free, worldwide, and payment is via PayPal to avoid foreign currency complications. We will also soon be approaching various retail outlets to make enquiries about selling them in-store.
Where are you based?
We are based in Melbourne, Australia. We are also in the process of setting up in the UK.
Why Dancing With The Black Dog?
Dancing With The Black Dog started off in 2011 as a blog at www.dancingwiththeblackdog.com, which evolved into a free online book. In it, our founder openly tells the story of how he fought and ultimately beat anxiety and depression. The black dog is a widely-used euphemism for depression, popularised but not invented by Sir Winston Churchill. We also chose "dancing" because we like to think of a battle with mental illness as being like a dance-off. You move here, you move there, up, down, all around trying to outwit the black dog, but as long as you keep staring the beast in the eye, there is hope. You can win the dance-off.
The black dog is only a euphemism for depression, not anxiety or any other mental illness.
That's true – and that is what makes it such a good symbol to use. After all, we are creating a symbol for awareness of depression and anxiety. Not depression and the flu.
Why do you not provide any additional mental health services?
We are a small but growing charity with a global outlook. We are focusing on our It's OK To Say If You Don't Feel OK campaign, however we do have links to the mental health services of other organisations around the world on our Get Help Now page. This in case anyone is on our website and wonders where they can get immediate help.
Why do you only have 1 or 2 mental health services per country on your Get Help Now page?
To avoid clutter and provide ease of access. We are not affiliated in any way with the other organisations listed on our Get Help Now page, but we have made them aware we have listed them.
Does Dancing With The Black Dog have any paid directors, employees or contractors?
No. None whatsoever.
Why are you targeting the vulnerable who need help, not a lapel pin?
This is most certainly not what we are doing. We are actually "targeting" anyone who would like to help silently convey our message -- whether they suffer from a mental illness or not. Wearing the black dog symbol does not mean you are saying "I suffer from anxiety or depression and it's ok to say if you don't feel ok". Rather, it means you are saying "it's ok to say if you don't feel ok".
How do I know you are not a money-making scam?
We are a registered charity, with obligations to submit annual financial statements to the ACNC. We have been video endorsed by several prominent actors, singers and sports personalities who have been willing to put their name to our cause (links to the videos can be found at www.itsoktosay.org.) We became a registered charity in August 2015 when we started up It's OK To Say If You Don't Feel OK. But we have been around since 2011 raising awareness and offering hope. Currently all proceeds and donations are going towards raising further awareness of our cause. If you're not convinced, follow us, watch us! You'll see...
Why Are You Asking Volunteers For An A$50/ £30 Deposit?
That is a very fair question. There are two reasons really, both of which are based on the fact that while we appreciate not everyone who wants to volunteer can afford to pay a deposit, at this point in time, we cannot afford not to ask for one. Firstly, we are a small but growing registered charity with limited funds, so we need to cover some of the cost of the merchandise and postage up front. Secondly, a few people have very kindly offer to sell on our behalf in the past, and whenever we sent out some merchandise to them, there was a small number of them whom we never heard back from. So while asking volunteers to pay a deposit might be unusual, we hope you can appreciate that for a small charity, it is also understandable.
Will I Get My Deposit Back?
Absolutely! The deposit can be deducted from any proceeds you raise and return to us. As long as you are comfortable you can sell the merchandise we send to you, you will not be out of pocket.
I Have Not Heard Of This Charity Before. Why Should I Believe This Is Not A Scam?
This is absolutely not a scam, we are still a small but growing charity, which is why you may not have heard of us before. But if you are not convinced, we are not asking you to just take our word for it. Please feel free to read more about us and who we are by clicking here.
What Do I Get Out Of Being A Volunteer?
To date, we have received orders for over 30,000 pieces of our branded merchandise purely through online sales. All of these orders have been single-handedly packed, labelled, stamped and sent by our Founder, who runs the charity entirely unpaid in his limited spare time. But the orders, the merchandise and the brand are not important – what is important is the message they call convey. And we have plans to make 30,000 look like a drop in the ocean. So what you can get out of being a volunteer is being able to say you played an exciting part in transforming a drop into an ocean.